Ok folks. This is turning into an amazing discussion. First, on S9 and therapy. Yes, I have always pushed for this. We do have play therapy here in the UK and that is what we had lined up for him. But I need to look into it as an individual because she still gets a say on his welfare. The system set up is that the parents are in mediation while the child gets the play therapy. You need to attend TOGRTHER three times (we did) for him to be eligible and for the mediators to allow this to happen (they did). I need to go back and speak to them regarding how the situation is now. Either that or go behind her back and now that we are at L stage I'll need to consult my L first.
Asitis/wonka. I don't see a conflict in what you both are saying RE detachment. Perhaps a little semantics at play but for me at least I think you are both right. DB is a learning curve. It's not natural whereas asitis is talking in the context of normal human emotions (as far as I can tell anyway). I don't think the definitions are mutually exclusive, just that one leads to the other. Making sense?
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Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
