What do I do?

[mvgfwd2]

My W said the same thing until some of the truth saw the light of day. She swore up and down, on the bible, on her mother's grave, etc. Even got angry that I wouldn't believe her. Then I was presented with information to the contrary. WAWs lie. You told her where you stand. Just words. Begging for her to do what you want will get you no where and is not attractive to her. You can't tell her or beg her to do anything she doesn't want to do. That's why your words have no meaning. Actions command attention and gain respect.