NDY,

Here is a fact:

Your W has taken a temporary leave of her senses.

That doesn't necessarily mean that she's actually "in love with the OM." No mind reading right there. It is the dopamine that makes people think they're "in love." Think grammar school, buddy. How quickly they drop their love interests.

Be the Cool Hand Luke here and just observe from afar the grammar school antics that is W and the OM.