But as there isn't much I can do I just need to be the best dad I can. Do not engage with her anger in front of S9 or any other time for that matter. This isn't me being scared or non confrontational I just realise there isn't any point in trying to talk down someone THIS irrational. And by that I don't mean to persuade her what she's doing is destructive and the wrong thing to do. She's been incapable of having a conversation with me for a while (except when she what cake eating, then she was happy).
you nailed it bro. I think our situations are a little different, but my W tries to bait me into arguments and she tries to get me upset, conscious or sub-conscious, I think it is them doing it so they feel justified in their behavior. Remember detaching means not letting her affect your emotions; easier said than done.
Me: 32 Her: 29 M: 5 T: 11 D2 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me) W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15 Papers served 6-3-15 Temporary Order 7-15-15 W Moved out 7-17-15
