[quote=PigPen]Just had a great talk with DB Coach Chuck. He asked me a great question at the end of the session that I'd like to put in here before stating some goals to stop me from obsessing about my sitch all day.
"If you knew that in 30 days your W suddenly woke and decided that she wanted to begin reconciliation with you, what would you do in the meantime?"
This is why I love this forum. With everyone sharing bits of their situation, every once in a while something just resonates with you in just the right way. Thank you for sharing. I love your goals btw. I tend to work best under pressure with many things, so I think the 30 days is what did it for me. I think the key is setting no expectations on outcomes with regard to R. However, it all about making the most of the gift time we have been given instead of (censored) it away. As long as you do that, then you win regardless.
Can't wait to hear updates on your progress!!
Last edited by BW05; 06/24/1507:39 PM.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015