hold on! - 10

[u-turn]

getting involved with a married woman, safe, no commitment from him required and once she is divorced well now she wants to believe he would be her next ... soulmate of a husband .. this is not the foundation a good relationship is built on .. lies and deciet

funny that we can see that, but they didn't/don't

W shared with me as the A is over and we are talking things out that OM never connected emotionally, never filled those needs, they never talked like we do ...

This sounds like great news for you Cali - thumbs up!!!

I do think the direction you are going will have an impact on your W ... I have always felt this with your sitch but its you who needs to pull that trigger .. one I was never willing to pull ... you have my support .. I know how rough this really is.

Thank you, that means a lot to me. It almost feels like actually pulling a trigger. It is really hard, but all will be well.

Thank you for your support as always