Just had a great talk with DB Coach Chuck. He asked me a great question at the end of the session that I'd like to put in here before stating some goals to stop me from obsessing about my sitch all day.

"If you knew that in 30 days your W suddenly woke and decided that she wanted to begin reconciliation with you, what would you do in the meantime?"

My answer was that I would stop living in my head and start to put the pieces in place to get my website back up and running, get my nutrition classes back out to the public, and build my current business up by doing all of the steps needed for the rebranding we are going through in August.

So my GAL goals for the next 30 days are:

- Continue 12 step work and meetings - attend 1 addiction seminar
- Work in my business as if I was still happily married (make my business a priority over my sitch...harder to quantify)
- 3 hours of professional writing per week for my site
- design 3 online nutrition coaching packages
- triple our business Instagram following in 30 days
- Workout 4 - 6 times per week myself
- Cook 1 new meal per week

That should keep me busy, healthy, and focused on my own life while my situation unfolds.

M 39 W 36
T5 M3
BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day
Served 9/15
D finalized 6/17