Just thought I should check in! Been very busy around here. With work and spending time with my kids, I have not had much time for anything else. I feel like SUPER DAD! Cooking, cleaning, laundry and running kids around. Setting up doctor appointments that should have been done awhile ago( WW was too busy I guess).
Been reading some at night before bed. Trying to better myself. Been reading alot on boundaries. Very interesting reading! Alot of things have been coming to mind how WW was good at manipulating me. My fault for allowing it. She was good at guilt tripping me also.
I am preparing for another guilt trip. My L put in the parenting plan that she is responsible to the cost of getting kids and bringing them back. It was also my understanding she was coming up here to pick them up after the 4th. Now she has scheduled a appointment and wants me to meet her half way. Part of me does not have a problem with this because that is what most people do in these situations. But the other part is saying that she moved away, I am stuck paying her health insurance, stuck paying a debt she left that got put under my name and I have not asked for child support from her. So any opinions would be appreciated.
Had to have the talk with D12 the other night. I explained that I filed the legal separation papers and what it meant. I also explained why I did it. I did not speak negatively towards her mother at all. But I did tell her that I filed the papers mostly to keep the kids here. She seemed glad I did that. But she was VERY upset. I just comforted her and told her I will be with her through everything and I loved her very much. It was a very hard conversation. I was a little bitter at WW the next day, but I got over it. Luckily I don't hear much from her.
I have been golfing and fishing with the kids! Swimming and playing games! That has been my GAL right now.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
