I am sorry DifRent that you had to read that. Yuck.
Your W is facing pressure no question about it. It will beher choice what he actions will be. Of course the OW is putting the pressure on her, her agenda is to get your W to leave. As for a spiritual attack, you have zero influnece in her feeling spiritually attacked. You don't control God, do you?
As for prayers, I pray to serve Gods will and pray for the strength and grace to be able to accomplish it, whatever it maybe. I also pray for my W but nothing specifically.
Let your W feel the pressure of her behaviors. She has no concept that you have suffered a great trauma which was none of your making, right?
In my opinion, the pressure will get worse. Let her spin.
