We have I phones but separate ids, I can't believe she would be able to do this and don't know why she would want to.
Like I said, I'm not hiding any thing (other than this site) I did wipe my I pad and remove email from it. That lays around and she could access that.

I have bigger fish to fry I guess. Bottom line is that I know I can live without her, this whole thing isn't the end of the world, life goes on. I have some free legal council through work and I think I'll set up an appointment so I know my options.

I really don't want a divorce but I am hating the way this is now, I think if she wants to be separated than we should be separated, not she has an apt. And a house.

I truely have not really even been thinking much about this lately. At least not worrying about it.