Sitting in front of a computer, call her and ask her (live, NOT on voicemail) for her login and password for her anonymous email account.

If she balks, you'll have your answer, and you also won't be "snooping" behind her back.

Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)