Summer of Growth and Acceptance

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Also, just to add that his words and facial expression clearly show anger, hurt and blame at me for a decade of unhappy marriage. But then after I show empathy, validate, and show emotion, then he tells me to stop beating myself up and he is also to blame. Yet he has shown no actions, guilt or remorse for his accountability or blame in our M. I don't get this.

I think what partially prompted this conversation is I cannot stand us not talking to each other. I despise it. I don't want things to turn hateful, but maybe more about not wanting to fully let go.