What you are doing is not working, it always ends up join the same place as you say. So try a different approach. Revise what your goal is. This has to be consistent change for her to be convinced and there e has only been a couple of months since BD - so it is too early to expect that.
it sounds like you are pursuing. maybe the best thing for you to do is nothing. it is not something which you are going resolve right now. so stop trying to. it just goes nowhere, and possibly makes things worse.
keep up the 180s. you are still visible, she will see the changes, keep them up, don't advertise them to her. I hope one of them is NOT going out drinking with your buddies.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
