Yesteday the W asked for some files on our old computer. I had to do some digging but I found them and emailed them to her. Surprisingly she said thanks.
She also sent me an email about Christmas plans and actually used my name at the top of the email. Most of the emails are sent to a nameless person "me" of course. That is most likely becuase she wants something from me. That's usually how it works. I just told her I am not sure yet about plans for Christmas. It's still very early only June.
L got back to me, will have papers to me to review. Once I review, make any revisions, I will return to him. I am still mulling over if I should direct him to send to my W. She will most likely have some back and forth with a few issues. Once that is finalized, she signs and off to court it goes, unless we settle out of court which I have no idea if that will happen or not.
So it seems we are moving forward with D plans. I could review the papers and then sit on them a while to see if anything changes with W but it seems very very unlikely. She has got it all figured out in her head.