I feel like this is over. She shows no desire to come back. She is living it up with no thought to the future. She has hurt so many with her actions. I have no idea what is going on with her. I wonder if there could be a OM?? Why on earth would she want to spend so little time with S? It's all very scary but I can handle it. I feel like I need to tell her that it's time to make some decisions. That it's time she move all of her stuff out. I know it goes against what you guys believe but I feel like I need to get on with life!
What is your goal with this? What is your ultimate goal? Is this getting you closer to your goal?
What do you mean by "getting on with your life"? If you want to file for divorce, nobody is going to stop you. But is that what you really want?
