It sounds a lot like you have things to do and he has his things to do. I'm not sold, why aren't the two of you dealing with all of these things together? It seems like he gets to make the major moves and you get to follow and pick up the pieces.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
