Def, ultimately you're going to have to do what works in your situation. Period.

The facts are that your W had you served, hasn't shown any interest in getting back together and hasn't really done anything to encourage you.

She's not concentrating on you, so you shouldn't be concentrating on her.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER