So I don't understand. Is she seeing someone else or not?
"Her criticisms of me were I had become a homebody, didn't go to enough family functions or social gatherings,"
Was this true?
"I didn't help enough around the house (something I had greatly increased since first talk), and spent too much time on entertainment."
What kind of entertainment? Was this true?
"My criticisms were she nagged all the time,"
You know, instead of seeing it as "nagging" did you ever think that she just tried to get you to listen and you would just blow her off, therefore she would have to increase her talks to you and you kept seeing it as "nagging".
"obsessive compulsive traits with cleaning,"
Was she diagnosed with OCD? If not, and if you're not a physician, that's just your poor opinion of her. If she really has OCD, then you should understand that it's a "disorder" and not something that is stopped easily if you don't understand it.
"emotionally distant,"
In what way? Did you ever think that maybe she was "distant" because you didn't listen to her which caused her to "nag" you, and eventually because you didn't listen, she just shut down?
"poor communication,"
Give an example.
"always starting fights,"
Starting fights or just trying to make her point across after she felt you weren't listening.
"and stubborn to a fault."
Was she always like this? From what I've seen of your description, your "problems" with her are all linked together. And because you still seem very dismissive of them, it doesn't sound like you've changed anything about them. Is this true?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
