I feel like I need to tell her that it's time to make some decisions.
Like your W, my W shows no desire to come back. She is living it up with no thought to the future. She has hurt so many with her actions.
my question is: why do you need to need to tell her that it's time to make some decisions? Why do you need to consult with her at all? You can and should make your own decisions and you *certainly* do not need to consult her on them.
furthermore, it does not matter what we believe. The star is inside of you.
