Summer of Growth and Acceptance

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Sent H a couple of texts early today on logistical matters. 1) my parents want to come visit and will need to stay in spare bedroom. Trying to confirm dates he is gone on travel. 2) We started a remodel job on bathroom last fall. It is still unfinished and now H has other priorities (A). I wanted to know if he was ok with me just hiring someone to finish. We still have all finances together, so seems appropriate to ask.

Still getting silent treatment in person and now via text. No response to texts, so I am thinking of sending a text indicating that I take his silence to mean both are ok and I then just proceeding. It I could just proceed as I want without text. Thoughts? Maybe I should not have sent texts and proceeded in the first place.
Not sure what we are accomplishing by silent treatment. I think it is form of emotional abuse and I find it disrespectful.

Suggested text...

I take it by not responding to me that you are fine to give up room for week. I will go ahead and hire someone to finish bathroom.

On the good side, I am going to attend a separation and divorce support group this week. Have also set up plans with friends for a couple of nights.