You're going have to sit on your fingers for a bit while. W will get in touch with you when she's good and ready. If she misses it, no biggie. There are about 30 weeks left in the calendar.
What's the purpose of the MC? Did your W say that she wanted to go to MC to save the M?
Have you looked into C with MWD or Joe Beam?
She did not say that she wanted to go to MC to save the M. She said she wanted to "see where we were at" as well as give me the opportunity to make amends (9th step) for my addictions in our M.
I have not looked into using MWD or Joe Beam. I was planning on using the IC that I have been seeing as that was my W's recommendation.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
I believe he is pro M. My W was using Coming Apart by King Ma as reason why we should separate, and he told me that the real benefits to a couple came after reconciliation if they were both willing to be honest and build back the trust.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
I agree with V big-time. And MrBond is spot-on, as always.
Don't give up PP.
Your friend.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
I ended up getting a reply from my W about an hour ago re: the MC session. She's not able to make this weekend but asked about other times that we could sit down. This is still positive.
Something I know not to read into but makes me shake my head is the fact that literally since the first text I got the morning after she left, my W has ended each of our communications with LOL! For some reason I haven't found anything to LOL about in our situation.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
