I don't think you'll know until when, if ever, that door opens.

If it was today, maybe. If it was in 10 years and you were 5 years remarried, maybe not. Life is strange, there are no clear sign posts. PARTICULARLY NOT your emotions at this moment.

The sad fact is us LBS's tend to look at when WE'D be closed to R as the true end of the M...but the reality is that the end of the M has already occurred, and that's just difficult to accept.

But it's not all bad in the universe. Puppies are cute.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15