Originally Posted By: skhdive
Do you guys live together or are you seperated? I think it would be really hard with them there. I am thankful he moved out.


We are S, but share the house and an apartment. The kids stay in the house & the W & I rotate between the house and apartment. It was to 1) maintain as much stability for our kids as possible; & 2) maintain occupancy in the house if D & custody issues arise.

So far it is working out fairly well, and we don't have plans to change it any time soon. We've made the apartment a kind of haven & worked really hard to keep it clean & tidy so that it is some place to relax and get good time alone.


Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15