Do you guys live together or are you seperated? I think it would be really hard with them there. I am thankful he moved out.
We are S, but share the house and an apartment. The kids stay in the house & the W & I rotate between the house and apartment. It was to 1) maintain as much stability for our kids as possible; & 2) maintain occupancy in the house if D & custody issues arise.
So far it is working out fairly well, and we don't have plans to change it any time soon. We've made the apartment a kind of haven & worked really hard to keep it clean & tidy so that it is some place to relax and get good time alone.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15