Well no sooner did I write the post above...and the other Meetup guy sends me an email "hoping we can catch up and get to know each other better. If you feel similarly..." So I think the moment has arrived to broach the topic...
Bah...it's a brave new world out there.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014