Do your thing .. do not worry about what id going on in her head, she chose this and choices have consequences. I would recommend to not allow OW in your head ... sure she might have your W on strings and making her dance like a puppet ... I would do the same thing with my W in a way letting her off the hook of the A ... truth is its not like they are innocent victims in all this right? Do not allow W or OW that power nor satisfaction in your head, you go and GAL, LIVE ... work on things you want to improve for YOU ... let her go do her thing for now. There is a point in this when you detach the WW feels it and has to start thinking (without us even knowing) ... ok is THIS really what I want>? As I read elsewhere the A is a new shiny toy and will continue to be till they become bored, it loses its shine, or more importantly they realize its not that go-to teddy bear they truly need and never appreciated ....allow her the time to sort through it all, in the meantime become someone only a fool would leave.
You are doing well ... now press to improve ... for you.
