Because I am always hard on myself and I blame only myself but I know that there is 2 in a M. I will try to remember that.
URWorthy used to tell me that we need to forgive OURSELVES first. And to remember that we did the best we could with what we knew during our marriages. And now that we know better, we will try to DO better.
UR gave me some great advice on my old threads when I was spinning. I just could not "get" detaching and moving forward but she never gave up on me, and kept posting to me until I finally "got it." She lives near me in New Jersey and you shall get to meet her too when you come to New York next June!
You'd mentioned you could not find your own old posts. Do you know how to find someone's posts now?
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
