Wonka she lives with exw full time. When I found out that exw was lying to me about D not attending school and failing everything 4 years ago. I was outraged and got really angry at ex. I wanted to smash her head into the wall. Hence my divorce. I just dont want my kid to blame herself for the divorce. So I say very little about her future to her. D knows how I feel about it.
Kat and Wii you make good points. I did go to counseling to work things through. And I learn to let it go. She needs to let life teach her. Sadly or luckily her grandfather who recently died left her lots of money. Not sure how much.
My biggest fear is that there is mental illness from my side and exws side. Ex denies it but I am trained clinician and I know her older brother has Aspergers. My D does not have many friends. She speaks of one whom I know. Same age dropped out of school same time and has a 1 year old child.b
It helps to vent and put out here. Like every parent you want to bring your kids to greatness. Yes I hope ex gets tired. Especially since I dont pay child support only health care and her cell phone..
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
