Hmmm.... Maybe we can split the time if we both go back home even though spending any time with her is not fun or enjoyable now.
One thing my w has told me over and over again - even if the AP walked away tomorrow - our marriage is still OVER. I hear that and half of me thinks Yep MLC bs but the other half is doubtful. Maybe she is right it really is over regardless of this AP. That is why I am doing things for me - God consciousness, exercise, GAL etc...
Caliguy - did your wife say words to this effect??
If the only thing I get from this process is self confidence or to stop over analyzing every move or even to stop second guessing myself, I will be a better person. Maybe this process will help me achieve these goals.
