Also re your earlier post - re the ring and trying to make sense out of it - our walk aways are just as, if more so, confused as we are.
Seeing my STBX actions, always and now, as ripples in an ocean...whichever way the wind blows, and no one ripple has much to do with the other or any particular meaning beyond its own reactivity to the wind. It is a thought that brings me peace. There is no such thing as A truth that will help any of us make sense of this, truths are shifty for everyone here!
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
