Giving up = detaching, Imo.

If she gets her act together and becomes a woman worthy of your further energy, you can be pleasantly surprised and consider anew, no?

Love someone, even your W, let em go...if they return...

And if they don't, trust, TLEE. You will find great happiness and love ahead.

Hugs.

Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.