Yeah I hear you and I know better it is just really hard to do. I know I am doing much better then I was in the beginning but I have a ways to go.
Thanks for all the encouragement. I did text H and tell him that if he had other plans all he needed to do was say. I probably shouldn't have I did because I felt it wasn't fair to suggest we do something and then never follow thru and I think I wanted to let him know that it is not ok to do that.
