Well just ask yourself what your intentions are/were. If it was for you then I think you are alright, if you did it to tick your W off or to prove a point then next time you should think about it more.
I like in the DR book how it says to ask yourself "what is my goal" and then "is what I am about to do going to help me reach that goal?" If your goal was to get rid of the pain and frustration from those messages then it looks like what you did was alright.
Thanks Kem. Yea, every time I saw them staring down at me all it did was make me feel uncomfortable about this. And it really reminded me of the really low points in the situation so I had to move them. I haven't destroyed or disrespected anything. I just wanted them out of view. IMO they were holding me back from detaching properly.
Interesting now that I think about it, W wasn't in my thoughts when I did it until she returned to the house yesterday. I wasn't expecting her to come in at all.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
