That makes sense. I just have received so much feedback about letting the lawyers handle it and doing nothing. While I've tried that it's only seemed to make matters worse.
I just struggle with these convo's coming across as pursuing or trying to be her friend - which is not the case.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23