I have been pondering a lot lately about taking down pictures and packing up her personal stuff. I really don't have much time to do this or it may have been done already.
Yea. There seems to be two school's of thought on this. Mr Bond has been very helpful here. There are messages in her stuff. Just need to figure out what to do with that info. Like Mr B said, become a detective. I think I'll start by writing out some of the key messages, see where that takes me.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.