Bravo - thanks
I have no interest in hurting her and don't believe a forewarning will "wake" her up either. I feel it will fuel her fire more though - and that could be a negative for me and possibly the kids.

I don't even know if she will be surprised by it.

Thanks again

Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015