We were seeing a C and then never went back after having to cancel an appointment. We are actively involved in therapy for S13.
She is now seeing a C for her alcoholism. I have read Sand's LBH posts regarding the WW. I know right now it seems like there is no hope, but I need to do the following:
1) Keep being the best dad I can be for the kids despite how miserable I feel.
2) Keep telling myself that although I may feel like sh"t I am still a great dad and person. W's A was not because of me and it does no good to either snoop or try to figure out why she cheated.