Putting the OM to the side for a minute her biggest regret seems to be settling into the suburban lifestyle which, to her at least is too mundane and routine. This has been consistent from BD right through to her actions now.

When I returned to the house she basically went 'out' constantly. Clubbing etc. This is the sort of thing we used to do when we were younger but with a kid and a mortgage that all slid by the wayside.

But we also didn't replace it with anything either. She felt stuck but also living a double life because her job is quite exciting and she does travel a lot and stays in fantastic locations. Then comes home to the boring life again.

I know we stopped making time for each other. That I get and it didn't happen overnight. It happened over a period of time.

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.