It would be different bc there would be absolutely no tie between us. No shoe to drop.

It is the only thing that keeps me thinking about him in current terms. I want him to be my past.

I'd like to start dating again before the year is up and I'm unwilling to do so with a quasi D.

I want the quit claim on my house to be filed so that isn't in the back of my mind as something he will fight me on if he gets a wild hair.

I want to not know that we are still M and he is on Tinder, I want the business finished so he has no reason ever again to contact me, and the sooner that reason the better.

I want this door to be closed for good for my own piece of mind. Nothing to 'save' if I get a weak moment.

Last edited by Zelda09; 06/22/15 10:12 PM.
Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.