It seems that your live is slowly changing for the better. Yeah, the dating world after D is quite choppy and you'll learn to navigate through the rough waters. Trust me, it does get better with the passage of time and space.
I am in a very good place with a hot new girl. I am happy and contented. Who knew 10 years ago that I'd be in this place? Honestly thought I'd never fall in love again or find deep love again. Ah well...I was wrong!