Having a coach has been invaluable for me too Dif. It really helped to hear him say, "I've talked to a ton of WAW's both wayward and otherwise, and they told me....xyz."

He then reframed some of my W's actions in a positive light from that perspective. I think from our perspective, anything other than "I want to come back and work on R" is a negative. I know it has been for me.

Now when I do have interactions with my W, I try to look at them from the DB perspective. That helps. Not all is what it seems. And we only have one view, and the LBS's view is not a good one.

Keep keepin on Dif!


M 39 W 36
T5 M3
BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day
Served 9/15
D finalized 6/17