Great move, Teach! Did you tell him that he was welcome to come? That would be an easy way to connect and by DB rules, just have no expectations that he will come that day. He might commit to it now and then back out. Either way, just keep your cool. It really is like training a wild animal sometimes!

*hugs*
E


PS. PP, Did you tell your sister that 5 months is a blink on this board?

M 46 / H 43
T 24/M 18
S 4
11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY
1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom
1/8/2016 H moved out