Diff,

I really like this coach and her advice. Especially this one:

Originally Posted By: Diff
So... what does the group think about all this? She suggests I also find ways to ask her advice about things (regarding my new job, for instance, or help with fashion), and try to make sure that every time we part, she is left with a good impression/memory of me, rather than a negative one.


This makes W feel valued and as an equal partner. Use this sparingly so it isn't obvious and saccharine.

- The new place she's moving into is sketchy and she won't want to be there long, might even feel her self-perceived "failure" more keenly

Oh yes...this will hit home for W sooner or later. Just wait and watch.