I was wondering about the Retrouaville getaway and how you guys felt about it.
Originally Posted By: CaliGuy
Then she told me something, She shared the fog bit again, and said yes she had sex with OM and knows it killed me, she is ashamed but shared that he and her never connected emotionally, she felt more emotionally connected to me even during the heavy fog than with him, she knew he could never fill her needs there like I do.
I have not shared anything about MLC with her, but ^^^^ made me think ... more science project type thinking .. she tried to explain it ... shallow, lost, fog, and empty were the key words she used to describe the past couple years.
It goes to show you that all of this NEVER about you. All of that angst is all on us and we're wading through that chit like swimming in molasses.
We all look to you, the LBS, as a beacon that reassures us that you're still there while we're flailing about in those deep, dark waters. I still loved Ms. Wonka throughout my crisis and it was comforting to me to see her there.
If Ms. Wonka was a strong Stander like you, I would have found my way back to her when my fog lifted. Ah well.
