It is scary and moving back takes some bravery but do it. If anything it sends a really strong signal to your W. Think about this. That is YOUR house and where are you? Who's having the A? Who wants a D?

I did that whole gallant thing as well mate. Got me nowhere.

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.