Ok mate. Perhaps people with better experience than me can chip in.

If it helps, my W and I have been 'selling' the house for 6 months now. Guess what? It's still not on the market.

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.