Hi CindySy - click your username next to your post and see ALL of your posts otherwise if they have gone missing in your browsser somewhere I can't help.
What exactly do you not understand? What is your desired solution? craft your strategy around that. Make any sense?
I'm not familiar at all with your sitch, have to read it.
take care.
-Py
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015