BW05, I feel you, I am in the exact same stage with my H, last weekend he mad a mess of things that cause my youngest daughter (20 y) to not talk to me & her sister. He always makes things complicated & that things that don't make sense. I completely understant your frustration. It is very hard on us seening them self-distruct. For us we are separated but it's basicly the same. It's very hard to know what to do or say when.....

In my opinion, don't even say anyting, even hello, goodnight or nothing only because for me at the moment my voice to him makes him angrier and doesn't want to hear it. So, if Im wrong anyone, correct me please.

Be strong & very courageous BW05