Wonka, that post help me out. I have been having a hard time just letting my W do her thing. I really just want to ask to put things on hold and let's let the dust settle, but like you said she will just dig her heels in even deeper.
I'm still amazed she is filed for D only 4 months after I found out about A.
NDY, good luck on this follow up convo with W. I'm not the perfect example but it sounds like patience is the key.
Thanks Kem
The important thing was getting a schedule agreed for S9. That's done now so I'm in no hurry to do anything just yet.
She sent a couple of txt messages yesterday. One so that S9 could phone me and another of a pic of S9. I also noticed in the email exchanges her tone changing slightly. Bit less severe. Anyway no expectations.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
