OD, I've also had discussions with a work colleague about 5LL (he'd read the book with his W). Actually I think 5LL totally plays in work relationships, too. He's acts of service guy...and in the workplace it translates to him fining it hard to say no to people. Some people exploit it. I don't because I recognise this is where he is coming from (and he appreciates that I recognise it). I've also realised why I like to work with some people but not others - one of the defining features of the former is that they use words to express their appreciation for my input. Words of affirmation is my main LL, with physical touch a close second...and I don't find that at work
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
