He offers good advice CindSy. He got me out of the little pity party I was having. I had no intention of leaving that party...it was pathetic.
Affairs suck! My H had one a few years back. It was hard to look at my part in the marriage breakdown. We got back on track, now he is having a MLC. No OW so far. He just doesn't like himself right now.
It's about becoming the best version of yourself you can be. I think RosaLinda is your best asset, so latch onto her like a remora fish and start the process. There is no better time to start than now. And I have full faith and confidence in RosaLinda.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
Time to start a new thread, CindySy. Don't lose touch.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
I've been composing an answer for you Cindy but will post it on your new thread. Thanks for the compliment PM. Cindy did you know I used a PM quote as my signature for years.
"Whenever I get SAD I stop being sad and start being AWESOME" -- PatientMan
You are in my thoughts today when your girls meet the OW. Hang in there. You can do this!
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
PS to start a new thread, click on "Newcomers" above, then on "New Topic"
If you post a link to your new thread on this thread, and a link to this thread in the first post of your new thread, people will be able to find you more easily.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
Can someone explain to me the solution-oriented way, I have been reading that chapter & re-reading it and I having trouble understanding it properly. I want to focus on that at the same time as GAL.
what is it about ?